That’s the point I tried to show off. Vanessa and Ashley are still super busy business women who do have to work a lot. Sometimes they’re both in LA or NY or wherever, sometimes they’re out of town. If I remember correctly Vanessa celebrated her birthday in Miami this year (not the party Ashley attended, the actual day I mean) and it didn’t seem to be a big deal until Ashley shared the IG Stories photo as a birthday message. I suppose (!) both support each other offline a lot freaking more than we know - and should actually care about. It’s non of our business, but I bet Ashley called, facetimed or whatever Vanessa. I also don’t share super long ass posts of all my friends and family members online ‘cause it belongs to our personal moments - like when we meet up, to show them how much they mean to me. Not by making a post online. Surely a long post would be fun and stuff, but making memories offline is so much better.